Yeah. At the end it’s up to the person. We all have our own opinions, so.
Being a “virgin” has a different meaning depending on the person. For some people, it’s something physical (the hymen and so on, which is wrong though because many women were born without one so…). For other people, it’s something psychological.
Let’s face it, being a virgin or not, whatever meaning it’s for you, doesn’t mean anything. You’re still the same person, you just had sexual intercourse, that doesn’t change who you are nor anything.
It’s not like you stop being a virgin and then suddenly you have super powers and can fly. Neither being a virgin makes you a holy entity and when you lose it you fall in the depths of hell. *shrugs*
And no, no one should wait ‘til marriage to have sex if they do not want to wait. BUT in my opinion, sex it’s an adults’ thing two adults do when they’re in love with each other. After being married, before, whatever, but with love and with the responsability that it deserves.
(Emphasis in adults because I completely disagree with teenagers having sex because… just… no, dude. Study, that’s what you should be worried about. And if you anyway wanna have sex at least protect yourselves. You’re too young to be having babies or STDs.)
12. The reason behind my last break-up.
Long story short, I figured out I wasn’t really into that guy like I thought I did, and I didn’t really enjoy that much his company at the end. Also, he was kinda too intense and emotional and idk. He annoyed the hell out of me. Also he was pretty immature and got jealous easily. His mom also always wanted to get me into their church and i was like hell no xD. He did so many stuff that was really over the top e_e. I think the final straw was when I went out with a friend instead of waiting for him at college and oh God he got so mad at me because of that. And I was like really, dude? I’m done keeping up with your bullshit, bye. But welp that was long time ago so /shrugs.
Gawd… xD well, I guess that’s true.
I often say I’m a prude but at the same time I joke around a lot using sexual innuendos and talk about those topics so that’s why many people say i’m a vixen but idk, really xD I don’t think that makes me a vixen. And by prude… it’s not like I can’t talk about sex or like I haven’t seen porn never before, but like I have my own views and limits about that and other topics like alcohol/parties and well. Maybe I’m using the word on a wrong way but yeah.
I dunno if I explained myself but whatever xD
aalkdlfds omg thank you :3
T_T thank you. I’ll try to keep this in mind and don’t let them bring me down.
Cyanogen: If you could choose to stay a certain age forever, what age would it be?
Hm, probably the age I am right now xD not too young, not too old. Besides it’s not like my physical aspect has changed at all through the years or is going to change on the following few years so yeah 20 is alright
12: What I’m doing tomorrow
Probably nothing, sleep, eat, homeworks xD We were going to Portobelo tomorrow but seems like the trip got cancelled.
22: Favorite Movie
Breakfast Club, 9 Souls, Sad Movie, My Sassy Girl, Fight Club, The Terminal, Se7en… idk
2: A description of my self-esteem
My self-esteem is like a roller coaster. I actually have a high self steem about some stuff and a low self esteem about other stuff, it depends. It also gets affected really easy. I’m actually working on getting that fixed. lmao
3: My favorite book
Probably Dan Brown’s books. All of them xD Specially Digital Fortress.
7: What I want to be when I’m older
I plan to work on an administrative field or something, related to any of the thousands of interests I have. I would like to work on any biotechnology area, or maybe at hospitals, constructions… idk. I’m also interested in international relations… Idek. I would maybe take a specialization related with psychology, too and do something with it. IDK i have so many plans tbh
It’s their business ‘till it affects everyone else around him/her. Then it’s everyone’s business. That’s my point. I just find it unnecesary. About the common sense thing, yes, you’re right. I never said people with common sense don’t drink or do drugs. I’m talking about getting over your limits, that’s what I find not logical. If you can tell me several reasons why getting to that point is something useful, logical, then ok.
And hey, I don’t like being judged, no one does. But everyone judges other people all the time even unconciously, I guess I’m at fault.
Yes you are D: (?)
10. Do you believe in love at first sight?
I don’t know if it’s okay to call it “love”, but I do believe that sometimes when you meet a person there’s like a click or something. No? XD It happened to me :P
11. Do you ever want to get married?
13. Do you get jealous easily?
Not really. I’m pretty laid back, unless there’s something really obvious and suspicious xD
49. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what is your favorite thing about him/her?
My favorite thing about him… it’s hard to choose just one. Idk, I just adore everything about him. He’s perfect~
58. What are five ways to win your heart?
- being smart and funny
- being dedicated/detailed
- having manners/dressing well
- unexpected surprises (yes, surprises can be expected xD)
- showing genuine interest in my likes and respecting them~
And someone already does all of these and more c: